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陈勃2022-05-27已婚人士就算有了伴侣，大部分还是和单身的人一样孤单。许多人没有正视孤独感的根本原因，成家后才发现孤独是一个独立的问题。正如研究人员一再主张的，治愈孤独主要靠自己。
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陈勃2022-05-27大家认为已婚的人成熟、幸福、快乐、和善、诚实、慈爱、温暖；相反地，单身人士给人的感觉是不成熟、缺乏安全感、以自我为中心、不快乐、孤单、甚至丑陋。这些刻板印象不仅伤害单身人士，也对已婚夫妇有所危害。这样的刻板印象，往往逼迫人尽快结婚，但其实他们未必已准备好与对方共度一生。已婚人士可能结了婚才发现当时的决定是错的或太过仓促，于是他们只能选择离婚。
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陈勃2022-05-27婚姻中许多理所当然的好处驱使许多人投入婚姻，有时甚至违反他们的意愿。换句话说，婚姻制度本身给了已婚人士特殊地位和好处，让原本不情愿这么做的个人被说服而愿意进入一个有法律保障的结合。在有些地方，这样的推演变成一场悲剧……
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陈勃2022-05-27消费者支出调查显示，单身人士把大部分的收入花在服饰、食物、休闲娱乐上，且花费仍在增加中。在消费模式上，单身人士也比较能够忍受风险，较不在意价格，注重品牌，会被方便性吸引。这些特性的结合，在未来几年可以预见将会彻底影响消费市场。
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陈勃2022-05-27现代单身人士发现，作为传统婚姻模式的替代方案，多样的人际互动能丰富他们的生活，提升他们的幸福感。人们开始沉浸在社交网络中，取代原本“婚姻无底洞”的伴侣关系。建立了人际网络后，人们能够通过多种来源满足自身需求，而不必只从核心家庭里获取。
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陈勃2022-05-27已经有越来越多人开始明白，传统婚姻——意即和同一个人一起生活，并相信他（她）能在半世纪甚至更长的时间里，成为几乎所有个人需要的主要供给者——简直是一件不可能的事。
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派大星抓皮卡丘2022-01-07婚姻的去制度化可以分成两个阶段。第一阶段：婚姻的角色从实现社会期待和维持生存扩大为提供陪伴。第二阶段：个人选择和自我发展的重要性增加，必须牺牲制度下的婚姻关系。
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盛夏扑面2021-08-14大概是踏入幸福单身生活的最关键步骤。我们所介绍的五个策略分别是意识到歧视存在、正面自我观感避免负能量、主动对抗社会歧视，以及提振单身力。面对社会枷锁时，这些都是不可或缺的脱困方式。我从来没清晰地认识到：啊，我被那些人歧视了啊。
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在阳光里晒走黑2021-07-02自婚是一种意味深长的仪式，象征着一个人成为整体，自我信任、自我负责并自我解放，从自身寻求爱的源头。这是一个转化的仪式，宣告内心真正的你，让大家知道你已经准备好活出所有内在潜能。这是一个承诺，你保证将完全展现自己与生俱来的天赋和珍爱生命中获得的福。这是一种自由，象征你将真正和内在最深处的价值结合共生。无论如何，这是一种对爱的献身。
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cassie2020-01-31A special report by the PewResearch Center shows a sizable gap between eighteen-to-sixty-fouryear-olds expectations of old age and the actual experiences reported by elders. For example, 57 percent of the eighteen-to-sixty-four-year-old population anticipate memory loss in old age, while only 25 percent of those aged sixty-five and above actually experience it (the gap remains among all age cohorts: sixty-five to seventy-four, seventy-fiveto eighty-four, and even eighty-five and older). Furthermore, while 42 percent expect serious illness in old age, only 21 percent of those aged sixty-five and above experience the same. The final example is loneli-ness, which is a major concern and a central issue in this chapter. While an expectation of loneliness arises among 29 percent of young people,...
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cassie2020-01-31yet we still live in a society where singles, especially in advanced adulthood, are urged to couple up or otherwise face prejudice. In one study for example, one thousand undergraduate students were asked to list characteristics they associated with married and single individuals Married individuals were referred to as mature, happy, kind, honest,and loving. Conversely, singles were perceived as immature, insecure,self-centered, unhappy, lonely, and even ugly.These stereotypes hurt both singles and couples. Singles-whetherthey are divorced, windowed, or never-married-clearly sufer in the most overt way. But this does not mean married people fare much better. The same stereotypes often pressure individuals to marry despite uncertainty over being ready for such a big commitment or doubt...