重塑幸福：如何活成你想要的模样

• Serendipity

  2020-03-12
  If you want to change how you see your problems, youhave to change what you value and/or how you measurefailure/success.
• Serendipity

  2020-03-12
  If suffering is inevitable, if our problems in life are unavoidable, then the question we should be asking is notHow do I stop suffering? "but"Why am I suffering--for what purpose.
• Serendipity

  2020-03-10
  Subtlety #l: Not giving a fuck does not mean beingindifferent it means being comfortable with being indifferent.Subtlety #3: Whether you realize it or not, you arealways choosing what to give a fuck about. Subtlety #2: To not give a fuck about adversity,you must first give a fuck about something moreimportant than adversity.
• 布丁布衣

  2018-01-18
  Our struggles determine our successes.
• 罗艾蔻

  2017-11-05
  Who you are is defined by what you’re willing to struggle for.
• 罗艾蔻

  2017-11-05
  Everything worthwhile in life is won through surmounting the associated negative experience. Any attempt to escape the negative, to avoid it or quash it or silence it, only backfires. The avoidance of suffering is a form of suffering. The avoidance of struggle is a struggle. The denial of failure is a failure. Hiding what is shameful is itself a form of shame.Pain is an inextricable thread in the fabric of life, and to tear it out is not only impossible, but destructive: attempting to tear it out unravels everything else with it. To try to avoid pain is to give too many fucks about pain. In contrast, if you’re able to not give a fuck about the pain, you become unstoppable.
• 道里局外人

  2017-08-15
  第一：不在乎并非漠不关心，而是甘愿与众不同。第二条：想要不被逆境击垮，你须首先在乎那些比逆境更为重要的东西。第三条：不管你是否意识到，你总是在寻找你的关注点。
• 道里局外人

  2017-08-15
  当你开始放弃这一切是，你将会经历一场大撤退。然而，你将欲火重生，越变越好。
• 道里局外人

  2017-08-15
  每一天多度过的每一刻，你都在选择该在乎些什么。因此，改变自我就像去在乎一件其他东西那么简单。尽管简单，却不容易做到。
• 道里局外人

  2017-08-15
  自我意识就像是一个洋葱。洋葱有许多层，你越扒，它就越有可能让你在不恰当的时刻流出眼泪。
• 道里局外人

  2017-08-15
  1.一味追求感官上肤浅的快乐2.过分注重物质上的成功3.自以为“一贯正确”。4.盲目积极