归属感
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Flora2023-02-19第二,在我们不得不谈论一些我们不懂的事情时,我们会相当依赖扯淡。能认识到这一点对我们是有益的。法兰克福解释说,很多人坚信我们对世界上发生的每一件事,都有必要发表评论或者参与意见。这直接提高了扯淡的数量。
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Flora2023-02-18当你以真实的面貌出现,真实地谈论你自己和你的工作时,你就属于任何地方。
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Mona Muwa2021-02-02只有当你领悟到你不归属于任何地方的时候,你才是真正自由的一一你属于所有的地方,而不是某个地方。(它的)代价很高,但收获巨大。
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Mona Muwa2020-12-18耶斯:你属于什么地方吗?玛雅:并没有。耶斯:你属于谁吗?玛雅:是的,我越来越觉得,我属于我自己。这一点令我很自豪。我很在意自己如何看待“玛雅”这个人。我非常喜欢玛雅,我喜欢她的幽默和勇气。如果我发现自己的表现并非如此,她让我感觉不尽如人意,那我就得想办法改变了。
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Lucia2018-06-23One of the key pieces of advice I give is to explicitly address the underlying intentions. What is the conversation about? And what is it really about? This sounds simple, but tends to be easier said than done. The intention is the deepest-level reason why the topic is so important to the person.
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Lucia2018-06-23According to Bishop, in 1976 less than 25 percent of Americans lived in places where the presidential election was a landslide. In other words, we lived next door to, and attended school and worshiped with, people who held different beliefs than ours. We were ideologically diverse. In contrast, 80 percent of U.S. counties gave either Donald Trump or Hillary Clinton a landslide victory. Most of us no longer even live near people who are all that different from us in terms of political and social beliefs.At the same time sorting is on the rise, so is loneliness.
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Lucia2018-06-23I’m not an expert on terrorism, but I’ve studied fear for over fifteen years, and here’s what I can tell you:Terrorism is time-released fear.The ultimate goal of both global and domestic terrorism is to conduct strikes that embed fear so deeply in the heart of a community that fear becomes a way of life. This unconscious way of living then fuels so much anger and blame that people start to turn on one another. Terrorism is more effective when we allow fear to take root in our culture. Then it’s only a matter of time before we become fractured, isolated, and driven by our perceptions of scarcity. While the trends in sorting and loneliness predate 9/11, data show that they’ve grown significantly in the past 15 years.