Grit

- 书名:Grit
- 作者: AngelaDuckworth
- 格式:EPUB,MOBI,AZW3
- 时间:2024-06-18
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- ISBN:9781501111105
In this instant New York Times bestseller, pioneering psychologist Angela Duckworth shows anyone striving to succeed—be it parents, students, educators, athletes, or business people—that the secret to outstanding achievement is not talent but a special blend of passion and persistence she calls “grit.”
Drawing on her own powerful story as the daughter of a scientist who frequently noted her lack of “genius,” Duckworth, now a celebrated researcher and professor, describes her early eye-opening stints in teaching, business consulting, and neuroscience, which led to the hypothesis that what really drives success is not “genius” but a unique combination of passion and long-term perseverance.
In Grit, she takes readers into the field to visit cadets struggling through their first days at West Point, teachers working in some of the toughest schools, and young finalists in the National Spelling Bee. She also mines fascinating insights from history and shows what can be gleaned from modern experiments in peak performance. Finally, she shares what she’s learned from interviewing dozens of high achievers—from JP Morgan CEO Jamie Dimon to New Yorker cartoon editor Bob Mankoff to Seattle Seahawks Coach Pete Carroll.
Among Grit’s most valuable insights:
*Why any effort you make ultimately counts twice toward your goal
*How grit can be learned, regardless of I.Q. or circumstances
*How lifelong interest is triggered
*How much of optimal practice is suffering and how much ecstasy
*Which is better for your child—a warm embrace or high standards
*The magic of the Hard Thing Rule
Winningly personal, insightful, and even life-changing, Grit is a book about what goes through your head when you fall down, and how that—not talent or luck—makes all the difference.
Angela Duckworth, PhD, is a 2013 MacArthur Fellow and professor of psychology at the University of Pennsylvania. She has advised the White House, the World Bank, NBA and NFL teams, and Fortune 500 CEOs. She is also the Founder and Scientific Director of the Character Lab, a nonprofit whose mission is to advance the science and practice of character development. She completed he...
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Lucia2017-02-26一个话题反复说……不过传达真的是传达到了,开始觉得结束也很重要
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既望2017-04-21用现代的案例与方法去验证苏轼的那句话,成大业者,非有经天纬地之才,亦有坚韧不拔之志。发现兴趣,刻意练习,持久训练,培养激情,并在此过程中加入目的与希望。
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闫养云2017-05-04相对succeed,这本grit略逊色。我更prefer《succeed》里一系列专业的实验论证,而不是拿一些名人言论、外加作者的感情渲染,来加强说服性。(但不得不说,作者开篇拿父亲和自己的往事来引题,就相当打动我。)继续拿树做比喻的话,这棵树相对孱弱,枝干细嫩略飘摇。另外, 因为我个人研究占星的缘故,在读心理学的著作时,我会同时拿书中的论证来用占星理论再对比,succeed的解释性非常强,而这本grit就弱很多。
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凝子2018-01-09天赋是指,当你投入努力的时候,你的技能能够得到多快的提高。成就是指,当你努力运用获得的技能时所产生的结果。当然,机遇也是极其重要的。比如,遇到一位好教练或好老师也是极其重要的。
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